Are you looking for love in the wrong place?

man mirrorAre you dating someone who loves looking at himself way too much?  Does he spend an hour getting ready as you sit in the living room thumbing through a magazine, as you think to yourself, “should I go ahead and start some laundry while I wait?”

Well, if this sounds familiar, you’ll want to beware!  According to the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, mirror-lovers tend to avoid commitment and their eyes tend to roam. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but if he’s into himself more than he’s into you, well…he may not be the Mr. Right you were hoping for!

If you’re dating someone who loves looking at himself way too much… you’ll want to beware!

So, if you’re not up for the game-playing that these mirror-lovers enjoy, you might want to start looking for love elsewhere…


  • Does self-love lead to love for others?: A story of narcissistic game playing. Campbell, W. Keith; Foster, Craig A.; Finkel, Eli J. Journal of Personality
    & Social Psychology. 83(2), Aug 2002, 340-354

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